User Information

Barbadhu.com wants to provide its user with every possible information before entering into online matrimony. We are also equally dedicated to provide you with a safe and secure environment where you can search your desired life partner. To facilitate this, we have issued following user information. Please go through the following user information to find out more about searching for your desired life partner and posting contents in barbadhu.com.

A         SIGN UP WITH BARBADHU.COM        

1.         Email Address:                                                                                

  • Email address of the user should end with @yahoo.com, @gmail.com, @hotmail.com or whatever extension is applicable
  • In case a user cannot provide appropriate email address ending with the given extensions, he/she will be immediately notified that the email address he/she has entered does not seem to be valid and would be asked to enter a valid email address. For example: abcd.efg does not seem to be a valid email address whereas narayan.dahal@gmail.com could be.
  • At any time, if the user wants to change his or her email address, he or she will be given access to the site only after new email address is verified.     

2.         Password:                                                                             

  • Password will have a guideline which every user has to abide by. The guidelines are:
    • It should contain at least one Upper class letter and at least one number.
    • The password should not contain users name or email address                                            
  • In the confirm password section, if the user does not enter the same password as entered before, he/she will be notified straight away that the password does not match.                            
  • At any time if the user forgets his or her password, he or she will have to enter a new password.      

3.         Gender:                                                                                 

  • Gender of a user can either be male or female and nothing else.  

4.         Date of Birth:                                                                       

  • Date of birth of a user shall be in Day, Month and Year format in AD and in the same order as specified here. Date of Birth in BS will not be accepted.
  • While entering date of birth during registration, if a user is found to be less than 21 years (in case of male member) and 18 years (in case of female member, he or she will not be eligible to sign up with barbadhu.com.
  • Upon entering the date of birth not eligible to sign up with barbadhu.com, he or she will be notified straightaway that the user does not seem to be 21 years (male) and 18 years (female) and that the user cannot sign up until the user is of an eligible age. The verification of eligible age shall be done during identity verification of user by customer support representative.
  • If a user has entered a date of birth which does not match with the date of birth of his or her identity document, he or she will be notified by the customer support representative that date of birth entered by user does not match with the date of birth shown in the identity document. In such a case, the user has to fill in consent form stating he or she is authorizing customer support representative to fill in date of birth as is shown in the identity document and should email the consent form along to info@barbadhu.com.
  • If the date of birth entered by the user does not match with the date of birth shown in his or her identity, and if the date of birth as seen in the identity document shows user is less than 21 years old (in case of male members) and 18 years old (in case of female members), his or her account will be automatically suspended and the user will be notified about the same through email address provided by the user. To continue using barbadhu.com again in the future when he or she is eligible, the user has to continue with the formal registration process.

5          Phone Number:

  • The Phone Number will start with the country code which the user has to choose from the list of countries and followed by Phone Number.  For example: Nepal (+977) 1234567890, The phone number entered by the user will be saved and sms verification code will be sent to the user once he enters into phone verification step.
  • If the country code does not match with the starting phone number, he or she will be notified immediately that the number is not valid for the particular country she or he has selected. For example: if the phone number is in the form of [Nepal] [04XXXXXXXX] than he or she will be notified that the phone number does not exist in the country as the phone number in Nepal cannot start with 0 or 4.
  • At any times if the user wants to change his phone number, his phone number will have to be compulsorily verified to access the site. The user cannot access the site if his or her phone number is not verified.

6.         Profile Created For 

  • Profile created for will have options which a user has to choose from. The user himself or herself as well as the nearest member of the user can create profile of the user. These nearest members can be father, mother, brother and sister. In case a customer support representative is not convinced about the relation of the user with profile creating user, he or she might restrict the access of the user to the site. In such a case, the user has to provide a relationship certificate to the customer support representative showing relationship between account creating member and the user. Only if customer support representative is convinced about the genuine relationship, he or she will allow the user or member to access the site.

7.         Acceptance of Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy

  • After user has filled every detail in the sign up section, he or she has to read, understand and tick in terms and conditions and privacy policy acceptance tick box before he can sign up into barbadhu.com.
  • Any user who does not accept the terms and conditions and privacy policy of barbadhu.com cannot sign up to barbadhu.com or use any of its services.

B         EMAIL VERIFICATION:

  • The sign Up will be followed by email verification. A verification link will be sent to the email address user has entered in signup section of barbadhu.com. After the email is verified, the user can log in using his or her email address and password as filled in sign up section of barbadhu.com.
  • A user cannot log in to the website unless his or her email address is verified.
  • If the email address entered by the user is wrong or invalid, he or she will have to start with the sign up process the same way he or she did before. And this sign up will be followed by email verification again.

C         PHONE NUMBER VERIFICATION

  • This is the second verification process a user has to go through before entering into identification document verification. In this verification process, the user will receive a code in the phone number he or she has provided in sign up section of barbadhu.com.
  • If the user has provided a phone number which does not belong to the user, he or she will not be able to go past this verification process.
  • If the user wants to go past this verification process, he or she should have to provide his or her own current number. Upon providing his or her number to barbadhu.com, user will receive text notification with a code which he or she has to enter to verify his or her phone number.
  • Phone Number verification is a must to access barbadhu.com.

After the user logs into his or her account for the first time, a tab will pop up and the user has to fill in every detail and has to verify his or her identity as asked in the filling form to enter into his or her dashboard.

Following are the details a new user has to fill in after signing up and before entering into Dashboard.       

  • BASIC DETAILS
  • LOCATION DETAILS
  • EDUCATION AND CAREER
  • LIFESTYLE DETAILS
  • ASTRO DETAILS*
  • ABOUT YOUR FAMILY*
  • UPLOAD IMAGE
  • EXPRESS YOURSELF IN FEW WORDS
  • IDENTITY DOCUMENT VERIFICATION*
  • FACEBOOK VERIFICATION*

The details marked with an “*” at the end are optional details. We recommend user to fill in these details while signing up to ensure and acquire trust. A complete profile increases chance of finding the life partner of the user.

Every details filled by the user while developing his or her profile in barbadhu.com will be saved. In a case where a user fills the form partially (for example: he fills in Basic Details and Location Details) and leaves barbadhu.com without completing rest of the sections, next time when he or she logs into barbadhu.com, he or she has to fill remaining part of the form and go through verification process to enter into his or her Dashboard.

 FOLLOWING DETAILS ARE TO BE FILLED IN BY THE USER BEFORE ENTERING INTO HIS OR HER DASHBOARD.

D         BASIC DETAILS     

1          Citizen Of

Barbadhu.com is meant for the people of Nepali origin living around the globe. It might therefore not be necessary to include citizen of section in the form. But, in recent times many Nepalese people have either acquired citizenship of foreign countries or are born in foreign land. This section is therefore to help user to proudly choose the country of their citizenship and not forcefully consider them as the citizen of Nepal in the form or regard his or her citizenship as Nepalese in his or her profile. If a user has dual citizenship, he or she can fill in the form by considering him or her as the citizen of any of those two countries unless ambiguity is seen between the country of citizenship chosen and verification document supplied while filling out the form:

  • The user has to choose from the list of countries where he or she is the citizen of. The user has the right to choose one country among his or her countries of citizenship but at no circumstance, he or she can choose more than one country of citizenship.         
  • If a user has wrongfully filled in citizenship of different country, he or she can make the change by going to edit profile on his or her user dashboard.
  • The country of citizenship chosen and the verification document supplied to barbadhu.com should match with   each other and should have a valid expiry date.​​​​​​​ For example: If a user has chosen Australia as the country of citizenship and if he or she provides Nepalese passport as the verification document, it will not be considered for verification. He or she has to provide verification document of the country where he or she is/considers himself or herself as the citizen of.

2          Religion:

  • A user has to choose his/her religion from list of Religions provided by barbadhu.com.
  • A user can change his or her religion from edit profile section of barbadhu.com

3          Caste

  • The user has to compulsorily choose his caste in the caste section while filling his or her basic details.
  • In case his/her caste is not in the list, he/she has to choose other option.
  • A user can change his or her caste from edit profile section of barbadhu.com
  • A user cannot fill in his or her caste if he or she has not selected or chosen his or her religion.           

4          Gotra

Gotra is equally important in Hindu Matrimony, especially with Nepalese Matchmaking. A person belonging to most of the castes of Nepal is/are restricted to marry a boy or girl of same Gotra or his or her maternal gotra. Gotra is therefore Significant in matchmaking. Even if perspective bride or groom is of different caste, if his or her gotra (including maternal gotra) match with each other, it is believed to be inauspicious for marriage.

  • Upon selection of caste, a user has to choose his or her gotra from the list of gotras available in gotra section of barbadhu.com.
  • If a user does not find his or her gotra in the list, he or she should have to choose “other” option.
  • If a user is not sure about his or her gotra, he has the right to choose don’t know option.
  • A user can change his or her gotra anytime by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

5          Marital Status

While filling out the form, a user has to choose his current marital status in the form from the list of marital status available in barbadhu.com. Marital status of a user is one of the most important basic details of a user. While choosing marital status of the user by him or her or by any of its authorized parental members, nobody should provide false information about the marital status of the user.

  • The user has to choose his or her marital status from the list of marital status available.
  • If the user chooses his or her marital status as Divorced, waiting divorce or annulled, two blank spaces will appear next to marital status one asking for number of children and another asking for number of boys which the user has to choose from the list. The user will have to provide correct information about his or her number of children if he or she has. If the user fails to provide correct information about his or her marital status and or his or her number of children, and if evidence of providing false information is found, he or she will be suspended from the use of website.

E         LOCATION DETAILS                                                                               

This section of barbadhu.com asks for user’s current location information including country he or she is living in and his or her current residential status. This section contains following subheadings:

1.         Country Living in

  • Here, the user has to choose from the list of available countries where he or she is currently living in.
  • Country living in can be changed later by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

2.         City    

  • After a user has chosen the country he or she is currently living in, he or she has to choose what city he or she is living in from the list of cities in this section of barbadhu.com.
  • If a user does not find his or her city of current residence, he or she should choose his or her nearest city of residence.
  • If a user shifts from one city to the other, he or she can change his city of residence at any time in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com

3.         Residency Status      

Residency status refers to the visa condition of the user in his or her country of residence. A user can have various residency statuses for living in a particular country.

  • The user has to choose from the list of residency status he or she currently has.
  • We understand that residency status of a user can change anytime in the future. Therefore, a user can change his or her residency status in barbadhu.com anytime in the future by going to edit my profile section.

F          EDUCATION AND CAREER                                                                                

In this section of barbadhu.com, a user has to fill in his or her educational and employment details along with his or her annual salary. A user should also have to fill in the type of organization he or she is working in. As a part of life security looked after for perspective bride or groom of that of either, filling out correct and to the fact educational and employment details is important.

1.         Highest Level of Education.

  • A user has to choose his or her highest level of education in this section of barbadhu.com from the list of available options in barbadhu.com.
  • If the user has multiple degrees, he or she has the right to consider any of its degree as primary or the highest degree and it is up to a user to choose whatever degree he or she wishes to choose from his acquired qualifications/degree.
  • Even if the user has multiple degrees, only one degree can be chosen from the list.
  • A user can change his or her highest level of education anytime in the future once he or she has acquired his or her degree by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

2.         Employment Status

  • A user has to compulsorily choose his or her employment status from the list of employment status available in this section of barbadhu.com.
  • If a user is unemployed, he or she should choose unemployed and nothing else.
  • If a user is unemployed and currently studying, he or she should have to choose studying in the section of employment status.
  • If the user is employed and studying, it is up to the user to choose between employed and studying.
  • Only one option can be chosen from the list.
  • If user is an owner of business or trade, he should choose self employed from the list available.
  • If the employment status of user changes any time in the future, he or she can choose his or her new employment status once he or she has acquired that status by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

3.         Profession

Profession refers to the accreditation a user has received after completing his or her highest level of studies. For example: If a user has done bachelor in civil engineering, his or her profession will be civil engineer.

  • In this section of barbadhu.com, a user has to choose his or her profession from the list of professions available.
  • If a user has not completed any degree or is yet to acquire his or her professional accreditations, and if he or she has chosen studying as his or her employment status, the profession will change into student.
  • If the user has chosen any option other than studying in employment status, he or she has to choose his or her profession from the list.
  • If the user cannot find his or her profession in the list, he or she should have to choose other option upon which a blank box will appear next to profession where user should have to fill in his or her profession manually.
  • If the profession of the user changes later in his or her life, he or she can change his or her profession once he or she has acquired his or her professional accreditation or job title by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

4.         Working For

Working for refers to the type of organization the user is currently working with. The organization could be government, private companies and such.

  • If the user has chosen his or her employment status as employed, he or she should have to choose what type of organization he or she is working with from the list of working for options available in barbadhu.com.
  • If the user selects unemployed or studying in his or her employment status, working for will automatically fill in none in the section and the user cannot change working for status until his or her employment status changes to employed.
  • If the user is self employed, working for will automatically fill in myself and the user cannot change his or her working for status until he changes his or her employment status as employed
  • If a user works for a different type of organization from what he or she is working at the moment, he or she can change his or her employment status in the future and should have to choose his or her working for status from the list of options by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.  

G         LIFESTYLE DETAILS      

1          Age

  • Age of the user is self-generated from the date of birth entered in sign up page of barbadhu.com
  • Age of the user can only change if date of birth of user is changed.

2.         Height

  • The user can choose his or her height from the list of heights available in heights section of barbadhu.com.
  • A user can change his or her height anytime in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

3.         Body Type

  • The user has to choose his or her body type from the list of body types in this section of barbadhu.com
  • We understand that, with exercise body type of user might change in the future. Therefore, a user can change his or her body type in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

4.         Body Complexion.

  • The user has to choose his or her body complexion from the list of body complexions in this section of barbadhu.com
  • A user can change his or her body complexion in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

5.         Diet

  • Diet refers to the type of food user consumes in his day to day life. User can have various diets from one to the other.
  • A user can change his or her Diet in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

6.         Smoking Habit

  • A user might be a regular smoker, occasional smoker or non smoker which a user has to choose from the list of smoking habits based on what smoking habit he or she has.
  • A user can change his or her smoking habit in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

6.         Drinking Habit

  • A user might be a regular drinker, occasional drinker or non drinker which a user has to choose from the list of drinking habits based on what drinking habit he or she has.
  • A user can change his or her drinking habit in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com.

7.         Disability

At barbadhu.com, we encourage every user to find his or her match and wish every user to appreciate the profile of other perspective user whether he or she is disabled or not. We wish to see every user to find a perspective match of each other based on his or her physical condition and choice. We encourage every user to clearly list out and fill in the details relevant to him or her in his or her barbadhu.com profile.

  • If a user has any disability, he or she should have to choose his disability type from the list available relevant to him or her.
  • A user can change his or her disability in the future by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com only after he or she considers that he or she no longer has such disability.

H         ASTRO DETAILS   

1          Country of Birth

  • In this section of barbadhu.com, a user has to choose his or her country of birth.

2.         City

  • The detailed guidelines about City have been discussed earlier in section E3.

3.         Time of Birth

  • A user has to fill in the time of birth in local time of his or her birth country in this section.
  • The time of birth has to be filled in 24 hour Format or 12 hour format as per the wish of the user.

4.         Horoscope Match Necessary?

  • In this section, we ask a user if he or she requires Horoscope match of his perspective bride or groom before marriage. If the user wants it, we shall provide such service at barbadhu.com.
  • The user has to choose his will for Horoscope match form the list available. He or she can choose between yes or No.

I          ABOUT YOUR FAMILY   

1          Family Type

  • The user has to choose his or her family type from the list of family types available.

2.         Father’s occupation

  • The user has to choose his or her father’s occupation from the list of occupation available.
  • If the user’s father has died, he or she should choose Deceased option in the section of his or her father’s occupation.
  • Occupation and Profession refers to the same thing and this section is clearly defined in F3 above.

3.         Mother’s occupation

  • The user has to choose his or her mother’s occupation from the list of occupation available.
  • If the user’s mother has died, he or she should choose Deceased option from the section of his or her Mother’s occupation.
  • Occupation and Profession refers to the same thing and this section is clearly defined in F3 above.

4.         Number of Siblings

  • The user has to choose his or her number of siblings from the list.

5.         Surname of Maternal Father

  • The user has to fill in surname of maternal father manually.

6.         His Gotra

  • Guidelines about gotra are given in section D4 above.

J          UPLOAD YOUR IMAGE

After user has filled in his or her details, he or she should have to upload his or her image in barbadhu.com. There are certain guidelines a user has to follow while uploading his or her photographs. The Guidelines are listed below:

  • Photos can be uploaded into barbadhu.com either by going to upload section and choosing photos from specific drive in the computer or mobile phone.
  • Photos can also be emailed to info@barbadhu.com. While sending photos via email, a user has to mention his or her full Name, Date of Birth and profile ID in the email.
  • Photos can also be uploaded or imported from facebook.
  • A user can upload a maximum of 3 photos of him or her in his or her profile.

While Uploading photos, the user has to be mindful of the fact that:

  • He or she uploads his or her recent photo/photos not older than 3 months.
  • He or she can choose between a full view image or close up image.
  • The face of the user should be in focus in his or her photograph.
  • The user cannot upload group photo as his or her profile photo.
  • The user does not upload his or her image if it is blurring.
  • The user does not upload his or her photo where he or she is facing sideways or upside down.
  • The user uploads clear image of his or her own free of watermarks, digital enhancement, signs, symbols, logos, personal information and holding anything (for example: Holding a cigarette).
  • The user does not upload irrelevant photos of celebrity or obscene photos.

If a user wants to change his or her photograph or add more photographs, he or she can do so by going to manage photos section of Dashboard.

If a user is found to have uploaded any obscene photographs, his or her profile might be suspended for at least one month to a period depending upon the motive of the customer support representative.

K         EXPRESS YOURSELF IN FEW WORDS

This section is designed to assist user to express himself or herself in few words. Following are the guidelines to be followed while expressing about him or her:

  • He or she should not include his or her name.
  • He or she should not include his or her bank details.
  • He or she should not include any obscene words.
  • He or she should not include his or her personal number or email Id or any such contact details. 
  • He or she should not include any clip art or image.
  • This section should be a short summary of him or her and character count should range from a minimum of 50 words to a maximum of 200 Words.
  • If the user wants to edit this section later, he or she can do it by going to edit my profile section of barbadhu.com
  • The details filled by the user in express yourself shall go through screening process before it appears in the user profile.

​​​​​​​THE USER COMPLETES HIS OR HER PROFILE HERE.

VERIFICATION PAGES

L         IDENTITY VERIFICATION

  • This is another verification process which a user has to go through. In this verification process, a user has to upload his or her identification documents in barbadhu.com.
  • The identification document must contain photograph, full name and date of birth of the user. 
  • This verification process is optional.

​​​​​​​M        FACEBOOK ID VERIFICATION

  • This is the last verification process where a user has to verify his or her facebook ID.
  • The user has to login to facebook using his or her ID and password to verify his or her facebook ID.
  • This verification process is optional but recommended.

​​​​​​​N         MATCHES

In matches section of barbadhu.com, you will find your matches based on profile particulars you have entered while creating your account or creating your profile. After you have set your partner preferences, your matches will be listed based on your partner preferences and not based on your profile particulars. The hierarchy of matches will be in the order of a member matching with majority of your profile particulars or partner preferences appearing first followed by members matching with lesser of the same.  

Barbadhu.com will also allow its user to shortlist a match. If you feel one of your matches could be of your choice, you can shortlist him or her. This will be saved in the section of shortlisted matches.

Similarly, barbadhu.com facilitates you to find matches near your location.

If you have any suggestion or feedback for barbadhu.com, we would highly appreciate it. Please send us an email at info@barbadhu.com and we will respond to you as soon as we can.

Thank you for trusting barbadhu.com and we wish you all the best.